Lessons From a Dog ~

Sharing some of Sevaji ~ Johannes wisdom ~

“Lessons From a Dog

Walking around the streets here in the Dominican Republic one comes across so many dogs, some with owners and some roaming on the streets freely. Just as some people enjoy “people watching” I enjoy “dog watching”. Dogs are great teachers as they share so much in common with human beings in terms of personality and temperament. For example, some dogs share their food while other dogs will snap at anyone who tries to touch their kibble. Do you know any humans like that?

Just in my little neighborhood there must be at least 30 or more dogs. It’s interesting to observe how some dogs are curious and playful, while others vicious and very territorial. Some dog trainers say that the personality of the dog reflects the owner and the owner’s ability to maintain mastership to discipline the dog. However, I believe there is some room in the equation for instinct and soul connection.

We humans have also been cultivated into certain behavioral patterns that reflect the society, religion, or parenting style that raised us. If a dog is vicious it could be that its owner allows that behavior or even encourages that behavior. If a human is vicious it could be a result of having a cruel parent while growing up. Of course there are many variations to the theme and it is far more complex than making simple assumptions. It would appear that dogs and humans are born with a certain innate emotional make up or personality that helps them endure and triumph over a difficult upbringing. It is a blessing when we see young people who have been through the most difficult childhood abuse grow up to be kind, loving adults.

Just as you can teach even an old dog new tricks, we can teach ourselves to change the behavior within ourselves that we don’t like. Most of us are cognizant of when we have acted poorly or have mistreated someone, the problem is that we usually realize it after the fact and after the damage has been done. Sometimes we are short with our parents, or get overly angry over silly things, or indulge in activities that we regret later. We must remember that we cannot go back in time and change what has already been done. We can only do what’s right – right now. Right now it may be right to apologize to someone. Right now it may be right to forgive someone, even if it is yourself. Right now it may be right to give someone a hug.

I think most animal lovers are the same: they feel that they receive so much love from their pet that they want to give this love back tenfold. I believe this applies to most friendships and relationships between humans. If your friend or lover treats you well, is kind to you, says sweet things to you, then this person is going to find a very special place in your heart and you would happily go out of your way to bring joy and return the love tenfold.

Well adjusted and socialized dogs love to be hugged and cuddled. Dogs love to play and run around. Dogs love to be told that they are loved and be complimented. You can see their contentment when they lay on their backs enjoying a simple belly rub. Humans need to find contentment in simple things. Dogs don’t need much, just a little kibble and a lot of love goes a long way.

Sat Nam,

Johannes ~ Sevaji”