{"id":4427,"date":"2011-07-02T17:34:23","date_gmt":"2011-07-02T17:34:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/divineearth.org\/main\/?p=4427"},"modified":"2011-07-02T17:34:57","modified_gmt":"2011-07-02T17:34:57","slug":"on-friends-and-friendships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/divineearth.org\/main\/on-friends-and-friendships\/","title":{"rendered":"On Friends and Friendships"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"Friends truly make life a blessing. Whether you have one or one hundred friends makes no difference, as long as you have in your life a direction where you can direct and express the love in your heart. For a child a friend may be a doll or a favorite toy. Though the doll is un-animated and without a soul, it functions as a way for the child to express his or her inner desire to love unconditionally. A child is overflowing with love and yearns to be cradled in loving arms, so much so that she will bestow so much love on her toys. The very act of giving love allows the child to also feel and receive love.<\/span><\/p>\n

For many a pet acts as a best friend. The two main things a dog desires are food and love. They are such simple and divine creatures! No wonder dog spelled backwards is god. What are the qualities that make a dog so lovable? <\/span>A dog will love you even when you look and feel your worst. It does not judge you by your clothes, your education, your income, the kind of car you drive, nor the house you live in. A dog is simply content to be your presence…and with a bowl of kibbles nearby. Are these qualities not what we seek in a true friend (minus the kibbles)? Do we possess these qualities ourselves towards our friends?<\/span><\/p>\n

They say that in your life you if you can count the number of true friends on one hand you are a lucky person. I have been a loner for most of my life but I have also had some wonderful friends…from my teenage years I had <\/span>my dogs, Scamper and Blackie. I remember coming home from school and they’d see me from a block away and start barking in excitement as I’d approach. I would run with joy just to get there five seconds earlier, not to miss a moment of the happiness and love we felt together.<\/span><\/p>\n

My guitar and music were (and are) unique friends since almost as long as I can remember. Many times, most times actually, I’d stay home to be with them rather than go out. Parties and socializing never interested me too much. In those atmospheres there is too much heart-detachment. Loud places with intoxicated people are not places where the heart shines. The heart desires intimacy, to know the depths of a person’s soul. Thus my music and I communed in a mystical language, beyond words, through the heart and into the divine.<\/p>\n

I am blessed to have sacred human friends, that I have loved and still love. Even if we do not talk or see each other I am with them, and they are with me. I know when they are down, happy, ill, and so on, simply through an energetic connection of love. A few weeks ago I had a vision of a friend. In it she was very thin, frail and not well. I had not been in contact with her for perhaps a year or more so I sent her a concerned email and gently mentioned this vision, though I didn’t want to alarm her. She wrote back saying that I was correct, that she had lost a lot of weight and was quite frail and was losing hair. I believe that just knowing that she was in my energy field helped her feel supported and cared for. And this is the essence of friendship, that we experience each other with profound depth, to make it known by words, thoughts and actions, that we abide with one another in love no matter the distance.<\/p>\n

Another point to understand is the friendship we have towards ourselves. This is the most fundamental, for if we cannot love ourselves then loving another is impossible. The amount in which we can love another is directly related to depth of self-love we possess. Of course, this love has nothing to do with ego – a distorted, self-engrossed admiration of our physical beauty or talents. In self-love we can appreciate these things about ourselves, but they do not define us. A friendship with the self is that of compassion and forgiveness. We are not perfect and have erred in the past. But there is a perfect essence within us that is capable of unconditional love, profound wisdom, grace, and amazing acts of kindness. We all possess this essence. As we acknowledgment and remember this divine-self a relationship develops. And as we become more familiar with this divine self’s capabilities and attributes a friendship grows.<\/p>\n

This is why many sages of the past of said to “befriend your soul.” Your soul is you at your best and is connected to other souls and ultimately to the universal soul. Living through the heart without any gap or distance from your soul is the Tao; the way to be your own best friend and also to be the kind of friend a friend would like to have.<\/p>\n

Blessings,<\/p>\n

Johannes \/ Sevara<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Friends truly make life a blessing. Whether you have one or one hundred friends makes no difference, as long as you have in your life a direction where you can direct and express the love in your heart. For a child a friend may be a doll or a favorite \u2026<\/p>\n

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