I buy my coconut oil in the health food store. You can cook with it also. It is in a solid form and you melt it to use for massage. Almond or sesame oils are also nice but I like the coconut oil best. Olive oil is great for your hair but I find it a bit thick for massage. I know I have tried natural oatmeal soap and that is my favorite. I am sure olive oil soap is nice also. I think it is important to put natural oils on your face and body. That would be very nice if you husband would apply it for you.